There is something about having a new baby in the house that makes you feel like you are in heaven. The snuggling and cuddling with this new bundle makes you forget about how much sleep you are "really" getting. The first few days to the first week after having a baby is the best example of two completely extreme feelings. The feelings you have towards your newborn vs. the reality that your body just expelled a 7 lb human being from it.
You are so happy that your little one is here.
---However you are cringing at the thought that you might sneeze or need to do the unthinkable #2.
You marvel in the sight of this perfect baby that you and Hubs created.
---However your reflection in the mirror shows the horrors of labor and delivery...in my case blood vessels in my face that popped given me a nice purple hue to my complexion. It's funny how quickly that "glow" leaves your face only to be replaced by dark circles under your eyes.
The sweet newborn cry is music to your ears (even at 3 am).
---However that sweet little cry turns your boobs into niagra falls only to have scratchy bulky nursing pads catch the flow.
Sitting on the comfy couch snuggling with the sweet baby is as close to heaven as you can get.
---However just sitting down on your sore bum is excrutiating and the thought of having to get up makes your abdominal muscles scream in revolt.
The magic of breastfeeding is so rewarding knowing you are providing your child with wonderful nutrition.
---However the sharp pain of latching on by a vigorous sucker or when your boobs become so engorged that an adult movie star would be jealous...you begin to question the natural act.
It is hilarious that you are so excited to see wet and dirty diapers because you know that your baby's systems are functioning and your milk is "doing a body good."
---However your bathroom routine after birth consists of a squirt bottle, Tucks, Dermoplast spray, pads the size of a twin mattress, and mesh panties.
I really think there is a postpartum amnesia that happens. Because if you truly remembered what all you go through to bring that baby into the world you would rethink ever getting pregnant again. It is funny how you remember (if this isn't your first) when you are going through it again.
As I'm writing this, Macy is asleep in her sleeper right next to me. As I look at her sweet face, I realize I would go through all of this 10 times over just to have her. She makes all of it worth it and bearable!
2 comments:
Amnesia is right - and it's only been 4 months for me! You brought back the memories right quick though. Macy is beautiful, congratulations!
This post is HILARIOUS! I can say it is hilarious because I haven't been there, but have heard so many of the same likes and dislikes.
You are a wonderful momma and have such a beautiful family.
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